Ever just want to write and think I have to think up some cool title to catch everyone’s attention. Been there done that a few hundred times.
I have been THINKING about all the things that I did that were a total waste of time but more importantly focusing on what works.
Often when we only focus on our own projects and making money we loose out and waste time and don’t make money.
I have been benefiting from a freer spirit for example, my oldest blogging friends except for one or two have not showed any real interest in BloggerLUV. Normally I would get MAD and say something but that kind of reaction seems like a distant memory to me now and I just think wow their LOSS, not that I don’t care but my days of chasing people around or always being the first to reach out to many of my ‘friends” is over.
This DOES NOT mean I’m some snob now like you see happen way to often in blogging sadly in fact the opposite because when someone does pop up I will be like HEY 
Instead of MAN WHERE YOU BEEN @)*&%@^#) LOL
So all well that ends well or something like that.
Here’s a REAL TRUTH in Blogging in case your still struggling in finding your place in the Blogging World.
EVERY person has their own obstacles and burdens some online some in their real life
IF YOU expect to make it you will have to challenge yourself to successfully finish each level.
You may make many mistakes that is cool I have made 1000′s but YOU will have to close your eyes and THINK
about where you want to go once you know that the rest is CAKE
I scrambled around for two years I would make $3,000 one month and $300 the next. I made bad choices when I did make money and LEARNED that I can no longer afford PERSONALLY to ruin my life, that NOW is the TIME.
So think about TODAY. I am not saying you have no clue but we can ALL sharpen our focus.
Lucky for me what I am doing is FUN and will involve traveling and meeting as many people as possible. The reason it didn’t happen sooner is I wasn’t ready because if I was it would of happen.
SIMPLIFY your thoughts and your blogging, now it’s time for me to reap all the benefits of 1000′s of hours of WORK>
See when we honor as work our work and FEEL like what we have is worth something THE WORLD will see the same TRUST ME
Peep that and you will see evidence that what I am saying is true
What am I saying ?
Chasing money is rough let it come to YOU
Stop friending 1000′s of GOOFS on Facebook and Twitter like that is going to get you somewhere.
I like to FOCUS on being a better friend and Be Myself , it works cause I have the best blogging friends in the WORLD
COME SEE if I am lying Peace
Thanks
What have you been up to ? IS your Summer awesome or what ?
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oh my, looks like the last part of this post is for me lol… but I guess its better that I learn about this sooner, since I’m still new at blogging. Chasing after money is rough especially if you dont feel strongly about the topic youre writing about.
Thanks! This is the best post I read all week
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Be patient — as Blogger Luv climbs the PR scale — more bloggers will want to jump on the bandwagon.
Right now, its a new site with a low Page Rank. Many bloggers won’t bother with a site that isn’t ranked PR 3 or higher.
You could increase traffic with a few tweaks to the HTML tags.
(I still see some No Follow on a lot of pages)
Re: friends and support. There are real life friends of mine who could be a heck of a lot more supportive – for example, I know one has a delicious account, and I did ask him to add me, and hahahaha that hasn’t happened.
And that’s the least of it. A very close friend is deeply interested in media issues, and is curious what the web means in terms of getting attention. He chooses to spend time mocking me instead of helping me out (“you don’t even get the ratings the lowest rated cable show gets”).
I don’t get mad any more. I just look for the people willing to help, move to them, and move to them quickly.
.-= ashok´s last blog ..Emily Dickinson- “It is an honorable Thought” 946 =-.
Bravo! Like you said it’s their loss and maybe they aren’t as passionate about this thing as you and me. Plus the next generation of up and coming bloggers are enjoying the ride. We got some real talented bloggers with high quality content and a huge amount of diversity. After all, who wants to keep looking at those same old faces anyway.
It’s nice to give back and watch people transform into something stronger and better – I’m doing it and so are you.
Peace!
.-= Ileane @ BloggerLuv´s last blog ..BloggerLuv =-.
Great advice John and as usual great post………..and I’m Baaaaaccckkk!:)
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You opened my eyes ,thank you for posting this…
It’s ok to make mistakes,actually mistakes is nessacery other wise how we will grow and become our true selves.
The beautiful thing I like about bloggerluv (beside the known things about this blossoming community) is that has wonderful bloggers just like John who present their rocky and amazing blogging experience to the rest of us on a golden so we can learn from them without having to go through all the confusing and distracting issues we might face ..
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People don’t realize that you have to give a little to get a little. It is better if you spend your time developing real relationships. Leave a good impression on those you come in contact with. When they see you trying to do something, they will lend a hand. If they think you are a selfish prick – forget it. You won’t find anyone to lend a hand. Everybody wants something from this business, but you have to be willing to give unselfishly first.
.-= Kathy´s last blog ..I Am A Firm Believer In Helping Other Bloggers Out =-.