Don’t Let this be your Theme Song LOL 
With all the information we are bombarded with it’s easy for GOOFS to make the excuse I was to busy to respond or I didn’t quite understand your question ? Really nevermind.
I recently tried to get some information from the famous Best Buy and called the local store NO answer then tried the District manager NO answer so I left a nice message NO answer you know what FUCK BEST BUY next time I go spend my money so who’s loss is that ? Especially when I could use my own affiliate link and ordered from Tiger Direct.
If your a people lover like myself you end up reaching out to ALL KINDS of people, often with a HIGH degree of accuracy I can PREDICT if the person will respond. Many Well known social media GURUS and many many of the wannabees LACK any kind of real social skills.
This whole blog is about engaging people on a closer level. I test people all the time because I just want to surround myself with the best hardest working REAL bloggers on this planet. PERIOD
So I will start by deleting MANY of the lame ass people on Facebook that are USELESS and not bloggers. I also need to whack my Twitter account and stop having to scroll down so many pages to see someone I know 
Bloggers to ME are notoriously socially awkward. Can YOU really afford to continue to miss GOOD contacts because your to busy ? I think everyone really misses the BOAT on the level on interaction we could all have. I see how my blog will be tomorrow. I want to embed a Skype type app so you can call me and watch me kicking back on some beach and flashing you a BAD ass smile I may rant about things but I do it to help you. I already know the people I need to know but I’m always OPEN to meet people are that serious, creative, hard working, HONEST, NICE all that If you want me to promote something for you I will do it challenge me and you will find I don’t play when it comes to accomplishing something.
Much of the stuff I do on the internet I can do alone. I don’t need anyone when I’m doing my affiliate marketing and study my programming shit I can sit here and BE a jerk like many people BUT life is short and I’m looking to GET BUSY
So when someone reaches out to YOU answer, look for better ways to engage people and keep sticking your hand out and maybe you will get lucky like me as I get ready to start blasting EVERYTHING Next stop SUCCESS and Nirvana see you bitches on the beach 
I don’t know what’s up LATELY but I have been blessed recently with having the awesome experiences of being able to Talk with some very talented COOL people on the phone who happen to LOVE Blogging like I do
Sure it’s nice to listen to some GURU on video or some lame webinar but I invite you to try to look for ways to get even closer to PEOPLE
Here I will give you an example Last night on Twitter I meet a lady who Obviously loves DO follow, comment luv, key word luv all that and MORE. So I checked out her site and was pretty impressed. I messaged her on Twitter and said Wow nice site (9 out of 10 of these goes ignored well maybe not 9 Anyway she said I’m a friend of your friend Kristi. Once she said that it had value to me as I know Kristi’s style of doing things. So we got to chatting and this and that and basically not only did I add her link to my Blogs I like page, I also learned a lot about how other people think and do things. I also made a GOOD connection as I was able to mention what I like to do. That’s IT easy but sadly it doesn’t happen as often as you may think. That is why to me I do my best to value and try to take care of the people that are NICE and COOL and I know people may sometimes be falsely lead because I have been known to speak my voice in a bizzard manner sometimes but when the smoke clears I want to be around GOOD people
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Thanks for connecting, John. Your style is truly unique. Kristi isn’t the only bloggers we both see regularly. Dennis Edell, AussieSire, ExtremeJohn and Matt the Wedding DJ and I are regular commentators in each others blogs.
I don’t get around to every blog all the time but I do my best to drop in, send some traffic and recommend them whenever time allows. I’ll be “meeting” some of your other favorites soon starting with heading back over to Tycoon Blogger right now.
.-= Gail @ Social Media Marketing´s last blog ..Twelve Generous FollowFriday Folks =-.
Thanks for the mention John! I do really admire your being true and vocal about your feelings. I wish I could say that on my blog the whole time. It makes me sad when some people in the dofollow community only cares about links and when they’ve had enough links from your blog, they go away like nothing happened and that you’ve never known each other online. Maybe that’s what this virtual world is all about.
.-= Mathdelane @SoftwareCritics´s last blog ..Are You Getting The Most Out Of Entrecard? =-.
Yes my friend it is like that
But to me that is why it’s even more important to look out for people that are cool and don’t just think about themselves 24/7
Thanks
.-= John Sullivan´s last blog ..My Life as Liz =-.
I agree with you about those people leaving as I have seen that on my dofollow blog as well, but I am proud that I have many loyal readers and commenters who have been with me from the beginning.
Best Buy SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!! They always screw people in some way and the horror stories continue.
.-= JR @ Internet Marketing´s last blog ..Hi, My Name is Dick and I’m Addicted to SERP Analysis =-.
You know John, I am constantly amazed how businesses out there just do not realize how important customers are. You don’t mess with customer service no matter how big you are, and yet they do. You know though, I think a lot of it has to do with staff training, they can’t give what they don’t know.
Solid post John, gosh there was a ton of good info packed in there. I think just like in life it is easy to have many acquantances but hard to have many deep relationships. In blogging it is the same, there are lot of other bloggers that you come across and know but it is a select few that become deep blogging buds..
It is very cool that through your new blogging friend, I also made a new contact in Gail as well through your blog. I love it when this kind of stuff happens.
.-= Tycoon Blogger @twitter followers tool´s last blog ..Domain Names for Bloggers =-.
ha… I was brought here from your ‘stop stalking me’ tweet!
Oh C’mon now John, do you think we’re going to stop ‘stalking’ you after what you’ve done for the blogging community — BloggerLuv?
These are some well known bloggers for no doubt they have really made things happen with solid skills of networking and quality content. I think what matters more is they have own personalities to shine. ^^ Browsing through the links, I actually wondering how’s Jason doing? His sketches are always inspiring, hope he’ll be back and show us his latest creations soon.
I’ll be visiting Growmap shortly, I’m sure she’s awesome!
@wchingya
Social/Blogging Tracker
.-= Ching Ya´s last blog ..7 Productive Things To Do When You Can’t Blog =-.
Hahaha even I must agree that your last tweet (Stalking one) drag me me
I usually read your posts from Google Reader but today I said…let me be here in real.
As for the test I guess you were testing between me and the ricky something yesterday
haha. Well you said it right.. I prefer a blogger who reply me when I ask smthing (like you) rather than some mp4 video recorded guru lol.
Anyway take care. It’s already morning on our side here…Got to reach the University in 30 minutes. I’ll be back.
.-= Kurt Avish´s last blog ..Blueberry Juice Sharpens Your Memory =-.
Oh man! I hope i know what you’re talking about but i’m just simply dumbfounded with all of these! Lol. I admire your personality.. which reminds me of myself “brutally frank”. “Speaking your mind” is a virtue to me already. Forget about patience and all those stuffs! Continue rocking the blog business John! Cheers!
.-= Jane Holiday´s last blog ..Holiday Cottage in Cornwall =-.
Nice linky post… I especially like the way you inserted so many in text before you slammed down the list of links. Good stuff!
Guess I have some catching up to do! LOL
.-= Keith@ Blogger Luv´s last blog ..Dani’s health information. =-.
Ditto about Best Buy and their lameness. I’m always amazed how they are able to stay in business, because their staff is so incompetent!
Hey John. Your words are like a school lesson for me. They make me realize that I’m not as social as I need to be. It is true that I keep myself pretty busy, but perhaps I need to let go of some of my commitments if they’re keeping me from being social with other bloggers.
And yes, fuck Best Buy. I don’t buy from them if I can help it.
.-= Trey – Swollen Thumb Entertainment´s last blog ..Where To Take Things This Year? =-.
I find it amazing that businesses think they’re all so great and the coolest. They SUCK if that’s the case.
I only say this for one reason: if you don’t have customers who RETURN to you then you’re NOT doing something RIGHT.
It’s a damn shame more business don’t listen to their customers and treat them right. Welcome everyone who does your business well and see how far you can REALLY go.
What do you think?
.-= Eric´s last blog ..Lets Help Each Other =-.
@Eric: WOW hey I have seen you around and glad you stopped by especially since you sound like a smart guy
Thanks Eric I always like to meet cool people 
I will check out your site right now I’m trying to revive another blog that GOT hit with a Russian DB Missle FUN
but I’m learning
Thanks John, always a pleasure. I just dont think people understand!
.-= Cot Bed Duvet Cover´s last blog ..Cot Bed Duvet Cover | Duvet Covers Cot Bed =-.
I agree with making sure you get back to others. I have been busy lately and it’s taking time, but I do try my best to reply and all.
About the best buy – you snooze you lose. Simple as that, they lose your business and maybe loads of money. If businesses don’t have time for us then they simple don’t have time to take my money.
Thanks for the link love buddy, going to check out some of the other links.
.-= George Serradinho´s last blog ..Professional and Personalized Twitter Backgrounds and other Designs: Twarks.net Review =-.
Wassup John, I’ve commented here before, but I’m still catching up on your old posts, as I only recently discovered your blog. I love your conversational writing style. I feel like I’m talking to a friend when I read your posts. What you say makes sense too. Keep up the good work. Peace!
I’ll start out by saying thanks for all of the link luv brother, especially that keyword snippet if you know what I mean. Your too good to me.
As someone that’s been reading your blog for a year now I can tell you I really like the place your in now, your posts are just different then they were a year ago. More passion and in a positive way and doing positive things, it shows.
.-= Extreme John´s last blog ..11 Things You Probably Don’t Know About Me =-.
Thanks
Most comments seem to agree, you have a really good writing style, which makes for a great blogger. I concur. Keep up the good work.
Guy.
.-= 3DTV Guy´s last blog ..Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows in 3D =-.
Hi John,
LOL.
Once again you have showed your kind heart towards fellow bloggers. I’m sure guys don’t like to be called sweeties so I won’t say it but I’ll think it
I agree with Extreme John that your posts have gotten very motivating and positive. We can feel that energy level- so keep up the great work. Thanks for the link l♥ve.
Blessings,
Eren
.-= Eren Mckay´s last blog ..Family bonding activities – insights to help connect deeply =-.
Hhahhhhahhaha… It was really a funny thing that I too is drive here because of your twitter account. Hmmm.. quite interesting to know your personality then. Well, blogging is quite fun. I come even to know one writing with good contents. I even use his blog for this one.