Comments on: Death is going to suck

By: mikan146@mensfashionclothing

mikan146@mensfashionclothing — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 10:07:41 +0000

Death completely changes a person’s disposition in life. especially if the person who died is very dear to you. You are not alone.

By: John Sullivan

John Sullivan — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 05:59:29 +0000

@Will: Wow went by your site very tight Nice to see Do follow all over Thanks for stopping by

By: Will

Will — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 02:38:45 +0000

Yes it has.

But now I work at a high end retirement community, so I getting more superficially frustrated by all the people who die. Many end up being friends and then they are gone. As a kid, several of my friends were killed in accidents, but nothing like your situation. Reading what you have here over these past several months, it is obvious you are a survivor. And yes, for those of us with tormented childhoods, the best legacy we have is to make sure we don’t repeat the cycle. It is possible, I have done it, you are doing it. No excuses for our pasts, just responsibilities for our life to come.
.-= Will´s last blog ..Sunday Search of the Week =-.

By: John Sullivan

John Sullivan — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 11:50:04 +0000

@Ileane: Thank You

By: Ileane

Ileane — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 21:55:16 +0000

Rather than tell a story about death I’d like to focus on my favorite part of this story. Yeah – it was riveting to hear about your childhood and how brutally raw of you to tell us about your Mom and your prison life. But the part that made me cry is how you talked about your children.

Man, let’s face it having children can change everything!! Seems like it helped you and I love hearing that. Peace!
.-= Ileane´s last blog ..Say Goodbye to Family, Friends and A Good Night’s Sleep! =-.

By: Brian D. Hawkins

Brian D. Hawkins — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 20:35:21 +0000

Sorry, I forgot to mention, not only do we both think Fergie is hot, we’re the same age. Imagine that
.-= Brian D. Hawkins´s last blog ..RIP 2009 And Kiss My Ass =-.

By: Brian D. Hawkins

Brian D. Hawkins — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 20:33:18 +0000

I’ve been very lucky as far as deaths in the family. I learned two years ago when my Mother died that I’m not emotionally equipped to deal death. It hit me harder than I would have believed. I can’t imagine dealing with it as a kid.

The past is the past and like Extreme John said, you are a class act.
.-= Brian D. Hawkins´s last blog ..RIP 2009 And Kiss My Ass =-.

By: Matt@Atlanta Georgia Homes

Matt@Atlanta Georgia Homes — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 03:42:43 +0000

My dad passed away at a fairly early age…56…after a life of abusing alcohol, smokes, etc… He was abusive to my mom and was never really there for us kids, but I don’t harbor any bad feelings towards him. He had a serious addition problem that he could never get control of. It’s made me a better man for having to live through that.
.-= Matt@Atlanta Georgia Homes´s last blog ..$8,000 Tax Credit…Time Has Been Extended!! =-.

By: Eren Mckay

Eren Mckay — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:26:33 +0000

I hear you John and I feel your pain. I really do.
After losing 8 very close loved ones in a time frame of 6 months it really changed my entire perspective in life. To say the least all I could do was cry all day long for the longest time.
The fact is that you’re not a quitter. You’ve taken the experiences that you’ve gone through and used them as fuel to move yourself forward. And that’s admirable.
Blessings,
Eren
.-= Eren Mckay´s last blog ..Discover the Power of Allowing Yourself to Cry =-.

By: gry Scooby Doo

gry Scooby Doo — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 17:24:21 +0000

I think that what you said John is more than true. Death is an aweful thing to live with, especially if it takes good friend or someone you care about. It takes my friend Adam. I don’t know if it changed me, but for sure it affects the way I think about it. You can’t win with it.