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Ten ways to kill a friendship

by John Sullivan on January 22, 2009 · 18 comments

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I hate writing this post. These are some very strange times. When times get rough it’s awesome to have real friends. People that have your back no matter what.I have many friends but only 3 real ones :)

These are the best and fastest ways to kill a friendship

1 Take the person for granted. That’s right let the person know that their not a priority in your life.

2 Don’t respond. Yes when they call you DON’T answer.

3 Never say Thank You, this a great way to speed up the end

4 Only call or contact the person when YOU need something-very effective

5 Think your all that.

6 Lie to your friend and keep doing so HIGHLY effective

7 Act like you always have your shit together.

8 Never pay back, that’s right they do for u fuck them :)

9 Hang out with people your friend doesn’t like or agree with very effective. Then brag about it :)

10 Kiss up to scumbag losers and blow your friend off this is one of my favorites cause I see so many people working this one.

America has many problems. This isn’t an attack on anyone OR am I suffering from any love lost on any specific person. BUT friendship is one of life’s greatest joys and they take work. You have to check in with your people. It gets OLD only hearing from people when they need something. No one is stupid people have feelings and I try my best to not hurt people’s feelings. I’ve hurt and lost many friends mainly from my drinking and MOUTH. People aren’t always easy to forgive. Now when people are struggling to keep their assets don’t RISK losing what may be your best asset your friend a real friend is worth the world :)

I consider my wife my best friend and my daughter’s mother Pam has proved to be a great friend over the 17 plus years I have known her. In fact she has never turned her back on me and I will always respect and appreciate that. MY best dude friend is Rob he is a teacher in Key West and we keep in touch on a brother level. I know if I needed help he would be there. I have told him things about me I never told anyone. I have some real friends and I’m grateful.

My best blogging friend and Bloggers aren’t very friendly or loyal is a crazy cool black lady from St Louis who has been there for me since day one. I hope we can meet soon and I have alot to be grateful for with her she taught me how to make some serious money online. I have much to repay her and will :) I’m sorry for starting this off on the negative. So many positive things have happen to me since I started blogging I just want to see people do good and have a better experience from blogging. I think this is very important and I hope people will think about what I said. Your only cheating yourself :) Who is your best friend and why ?

I’m going to also do a post about just who is the coolest blogger.

I’m far from perfect but I can tell myself  I do try my best :)

Disregard this:) while you were sleeping I spoke with my one friend in China, another buddy in Iran and my new friend in South Africa we decided we would do some work together. So his youth and naivety has resparked my joy for blogging. I already have him set up to make some serious dollars Peace :) >I’m going to start dropping some serious awesome offers,gifts, ideas just to see if people are Paying attention :) Cause I love having checks to cash and money from just hanging out doing whatever I want all day everyday :) The squeeky wheel gets the Grease :)

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1 John Sullivan (9434 comments) January 24, 2009 at 8:57 am

@George Norton:

Cool just went by and whipped ya a stumble
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2 Blogger Luv is do follow (3 comments) January 19, 2010 at 3:05 am

Cool one year later :)
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3 Keith from Need Information (1 comments) January 19, 2010 at 11:33 pm

Checked the milliondolla link, was a 404 page. You know I am down to help with anything your name is on bro. I have a new project still in the planning stages, and yes this one will be a business. I write on need information because I love to fucking bang away on the keys. I write on Blogger Luv because I like the concept, there are people I can learn from and share my experience with (bonus: they are all down to earth MoFo’s), I have my other site to sell products and make money.

Would like to discuss more with you…. have a crazy schedule this week, but send me your number again (message me on FB or email it) and I will call you later this week…

Glad to see one of the hardest working bloggers back to business, inspiring man!

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4 Reagen Allen (5 comments) February 5, 2010 at 2:52 am

Great Post John, like the list! Friendship is an amazing thing, its good to be a real friend, bcoz the one you are good to will be the person walking in when the world walks out. Keep it up!

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5 John Sullivan (9434 comments) February 5, 2010 at 9:22 pm

Comment Check YO 1 ,2
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6 Mathdelane from Software Critics (52 comments) February 5, 2010 at 10:37 pm

If I would include one, I’d say pretending that you like or dig the person as he/she is when in fact you hate him behind your back. Better ignore a person than pretend to be friendly. Just be true because not everyone could be pleased.

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7 Ching Ya (13 comments) February 5, 2010 at 11:20 pm

Maintaining a relationship is challenging, it’s not easy in real life what more online? :-) To me, what can ruin a relationship is betrayal. It’s hard to trust someone so when the trust has been violated, it’s done. We all have a list in our heart and I’m happy to say, as of now it’s growing.

I love how collaboration comes in place when you and some bloggers are sharing the same viewpoint, direction. It can make a difference. I hope some day I will have the chance to experience that too. All the best!

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8 Brian D. Hawkins (204 comments) February 6, 2010 at 12:05 pm

Like you John I have a very limited list of real life friendships but I really enjoy my online blogging buddies. We’re not limited by where we live, what we do or who we are. The net really opened up the doors for me when it comes to friends. Some are closer than others, some cross into real life and some turn their backs on us. It is what it is but it’s always interesting ;) Most days if I could crawl up in the computer and stay there I would.
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